Whenever we hear the case for a government program, we hear sad stories of individuals in distress. The argument goes that a new government program would be the answer to the person’s problems. In reality though, there never is a program or a system that fits everyone. There are always exceptions. The other reality is that in a country where the government has a program for nearly every problem, the individual hard cases are still hard cases. They are hard on the program, on the government and on the taxpayers. Therefore in some European countries, caregivers are being taught they have a responsibility to the society as a whole that is greater than their responsibility to their patient or client. This really sets professions on their ears when their very reason for existence is healing and helping. Its creating an identity crisis of mammoth proportions when the healers are told that healing may not be in society’s best interests. The great irony is that individual hard cases which supposedly justified massive governmental intervention have been the same cases that governments now don’t want to treat, pleading hardship to the society. There will always be a conflict between individual needs and societal needs. You can’t balance on the knife edge between them. It always requires facing up to the society’s ultimate values: the sacred value of each individual life, or the sacred value of the society not to overstretch its economy.
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Whose Needs
October 7, 2009A Prayer About Healthcare
August 10, 2009Lord, we know you are in control, and you influence kings and governors for your purposes. We approach you at this significant time in our nation’s history and ask you to impress your thoughts on our congress as they make decisions about healthcare reform. Open the eyes of our lawmakers to writings of our forefathers. Let them consider the things that made this country great. Please let their decisions be compassionate, let them honor and dignify all human life, let them give dignity to all persons and let them honor our human rights. Don’t allow them to make government so strong over us that it becomes our god, for whenever government has taken the place of God, it has always become a cruel tyranny.
Health Care Retort
August 10, 2009I am just amazed at the media feeding frenzy over the health care town hall meetings. People ARE angry. But instead of analyzing why people might be angry, as the media usually analyzes the “why” of everything, they are in lockstep with insulting the people who are protesting. Can you imagine the media insulting people who protested the war in Iraq, or anything else?
I lived with the NHS for six years, and could tell first person stories of what I saw and experienced in our local community. Yes, care is much more scarce and of lower quality. Taxes are much higher. Eventually, a two-tiered system developed because the NHS basically broke down. Its on the verge of breakdown again. It is this kind of a system people fear.
Vermont’s “Gay Marriage”
April 7, 2009What I really never hear anymore is a discussion on the reasons why the government got involved in marriage in the first place. After all, we see that marriage historically was usually a religious and family ceremony. The state’s interest has always been in its future. It is concerned with the generation to come and the continuation of the society and culture. The state’s interest has been protection for children by binding fathers to their responsibility to them, and protection for mothers who do make economic sacrifices in order to have children. Since homosexuals cannot bear children TOGETHER, the state has no interest in their marriage beyond some kind of recognition and a sharing of whatever financial advantages the state confers on married couples. Considering the financial advantages are supposed to result in offspring who become citizens of the state, the financial advantages which go to homosexual couples result in nothing for the state at all.
Homosexual couples can and do adopt children. However, they adopt children who will consequently never know what it is to have both a mother and a father. We already have a couple generation’s experience with what happens when children are raised without fathers. The societal breakdown is so great that if anything, the state might consider even greater incentives to heterosexual marriage in these communities. But to grant the incentives of marriage to a couple who can neither produce children nor provide mother and father or even grandmother and grandfather to children, is simply an investment with no return on the part of the state, however “fair” it may appear.
Cultural Disintegration
March 25, 2009I haven’t written a blog in weeks. I’ve just been the literary equivalent of “struck speechless”. I was summoned for jury duty early this month, and selected for a jury to hear a murder trial. The defendant was charged with second degree murder in the death of a girlfriend’s 22 month old son. It was the most eye-opening, horrible, horrific case I’ve ever heard, and I’m still having dreams about it. Its one thing to read about our society’s pathology and quite another to see it up close and personal.
The defendant was a 28 year old man who has four illegitimate children by four different mothers. He hasn’t been the ideal father. His oldest daughter has been raised by his mother because the baby’s mother was only 14 at the time she gave birth. That child is now with her natural mother, who has finished school and is able to support her. His second child has been raised partly by his mother and partly by the baby’s natural mother. The third child is with its natural mother. The fourth child is being raised by relatives because its mother is in jail. According to the defendant, “I don’t pay bills, I don’t do housework, I don’t take care of kids. Its not my responsibility.”
The defendant really lives everywhere and nowhere. He has usually had more than one girlfriend at a time, friends, and always the fallback of his mother’s home. He might show up at a girlfriend’s house at midnight and stay the night, or stay over with a friend, or sleep at his mother’s house. He truly has no address. Sometimes he has a job, and sometimes he doesn’t. He has been arrested several times for assault against a girlfriend.
The child who was murdered belonged to one of his girlfriends. The baby had been reported to Child Protective Services twice before, and the cases were closed for “invalid report.” There is currently a lawsuit against CPS, who truly let this baby down. By the time of the second report, the child had broken ribs, cigarette burns, numerous bruises and welt marks. At the time of the second report, the defendant was “in a relationship” with the baby’s mother…whatever that meant, as his relationships were clearly not monogamous. It was reported, however, that he disciplined the baby by hitting it with a belt–as young as 18 months!!
The baby’s mother hasn’t exactly a stellar record, either. She was involved in slugging matches with the baby’s natural father when the baby was newborn, and he moved out by the time the baby was a couple months old. Mom worked at various times and at various jobs, and whenever she was at work she had multiple backup babysitters–neighbors of all ages and backgrounds, relatives, numerous cousins, friends, etc. Some of the homes appeared ok, some were “trap houses” where various illegal activities were taking place. The only stability was the paternal grandma who took the baby for 48-72 hours whenever she had days off from her job. She kept the baby with her overnight during those times. She was one of the reporters of the child abuse. It appeared that the baby’s mom took him off milk at 5 months of age and he had rickets, as well as all the evidences of overt abuse noted above.
The morning the baby’s mom left her baby with the defendant, she was going to a doctor’s appointment because she believed she was pregnant with the defendant’s baby. According to the medical examiner, the baby died of either a massive blow or crushing injury to the abdomen, a couple of hours after the mother left. What the jury couldn’t know was whether the defendant was simply angry at being left with the baby and manhandled it, or if he was engaged in deliberate child abuse. The baby had all the usual marks seen before as well as some recent head traums and cerebral edema. There was confusion about who was abusing the baby, exactly when the abuse took place and the possibility that more than one person had been abusing it. Anyway, the defendant was convicted of manslaughter, the baby’s mom was convicted earlier of child abuse and serving a five year sentence, and the baby, of course, is dead.
What still haunts my dreams is the unconcern expressed by both the baby’s mother, and the defendant. They were like hollow, unfeeling people. As a fellow juror noted, she had also grown up in poverty, but this was a culture shock to her, because in her day poor people loved their kids.
Both the defendant and the baby’s mother grew up without knowing their father, and indeed lived in homes where the male influence was either absent or revolving. In the case of the baby’s mother, she didn’t know either of her parents, and was very much the same kind of “village child” her dead baby had been.
When I was in college I studied sociology, psychology and criminal justice. What we learned over and over was that children need stability and two parents. The face of poverty is most often a female headed household. Children with no dad are lower achievers, and children who grow up in homes with revolving men are more likely to experience violence, and be violent themselves. I doubt this information is any less true today.
Soon after the trial was over, I saw a headline stating for the first time the majority of babies born in America are born to unwed mothers. God help us!!!!
Prayer for the Nation
March 2, 2009I came across something I think is very appropriate for this time in history. Peter Marshall was chaplain of the U.S. Senate at the end of World War II. It was a very difficult time for the economy, with many people out of work, a huge national debt, and the nation trying to rebuild the destruction in Europe. This could have been written today. I hope our president is a man of prayer although I don’t see an indication of it. I hope he is praying for the wisdom and character he needs to lead this nation. Surely, we need to pray for him and for the country.
Prayers for the Nation by Senate chaplain Peter Marshall 1947-1949
Our Father, when we long for life without trials and work, without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure. With stout hearts may we see in every calamity an opportunity and not give way to the pessimist that sees in every opportunity a calamity.
Lord, when we are wrong, make us willing to change. And when we are right, make us easy to live with.
Let us not be frightened by the problems that confront us, but rather give thee thanks that thou hast matched us with this hour. May we resolve, God helping us, to be part of the answer, and not part of the problem.
Save us from hotheads that would lead us to act foolishly, and from cold feet that would keep us from acting at all.
Help us, our Father, to show other nations an America to imitate–not the America of loud music, self-seeking indulgence, and love of money, but the America that loves fair play, honest dealing, straight talk, real freedom, and faith in God. Make us to see that it cannot be done as long as we are content to be coupon clippers on the original investment made by our forefathers. Give us faith in God and love for our fellow men, that we may have something to deposit on which the young people of today can draw interest tomorrow.
Help us, O Lord, when we want to do the right thing, but know not what it is. But help us most when we know perfectly well what we ought to do, and do not want to do it.
Lord Jesus, thou who art the way, the truth and the life, hear us as we pray for the truth that shall make men free. Teach us that liberty is not only to be loved, but also to be lived. Liberty is too precious a thing to be buried in books. It costs too much to be hoarded. Make us to see that our liberty is not the right to do as we please, but the opportunity to please to do what is right.
Deliver us, we pray thee, from the tyranny of trifles. Teach us how to listen to the prompting of thy Spirit, and thus save us from floundering in indecision that wastes time, subtracts from our peace, divides our efficiency, and multiplies our troubles.”
The Fox is in charge of the Henhouse
February 24, 2009During the great depression a lot of legislation was created which provided government oversight for banks, Wall street, the insurance industry, employee benefits etc. It provided balance. Government was watching the capitalist system and preventing excesses from ruining the economy. However, no one was watching the government, whether it was over interfering, or not doing its job at all. Rather than make the government into a better watchdog, Mr. Obama now seems to want the government to just take over all these things outright. This little old grandma is wondering, who will provide oversight of the government to prevent its excesses from ruining the economy? Its just growing into a huge, bungling behemoth. Instead of a watchdog protecting the henhouse from the fox, we just put the fox in charge of the henhouse, and there is no longer anyone able to be in charge of the fox.